All these days, I tried hard to please everybody around me..
I thrived to be an epitome of loving, caring and adjusting person..
It was really difficult as I had to sacrifice both small and big things in my life..
People around me were happy as all their wishes got fulfilled..
I thought I was happy all these days, but I was not….
My Husband and some of my friends advised me not to adjust and not to believe others so much..
But I didn’t listen to them as I was very keen in getting so called good name ..
I believed that adjustment is necessary to build and retain relationships..
Whatever good we do, there are always some people who back bite about us..
I got tensed, cried a lot, whenever they spoke bad about me…I tried hard to prove that I am not that kind of a person, but I failed miserably..
Finally,one fine morning, life slapped me and taught me an important lesson that certain relationships can’t be retained even if I adjusted to the core..
After many years, I finally realized that I am being used and I can’t please everybody..
I have decided firmly to say “No” whenever I felt and not to adjust/care about what others think..
Today, I had an argument with my close relative and I finally spoke what I truly felt and I didn’t use any suger coated words..
I am sure that now she has a very bad image about me…
I really don’t care and I am very much sure now that I am truly happy…
This is the first time that I feel liberated and I think I am the happiest person now!!!!
I learnt this lesson very late in my life, but I am sure that I am going to follow this for rest of my life…